Courtesy is king. I will treat you right and put my best effort into making our time together unforgettable. Just respect me like the lady that I am and we'll get along great.

It should go without saying that hygiene is of the utmost importance. Please be showered and clean shaven when you arrive to meet me. Beards and mustaches should be well groomed. If that is not possible given where you had to come from, you are expected to remedy the situation when you get to my location. I would never disrespect you in that way, so please behave in kind. That said, most people are unaware of the fact that you should NOT brush your teeth 45 minutes prior to or after a casual encounter. If you've just come from lunch, I always keep my room stocked with mouthwash. It's out to be used so please help yourself.

I ask for references for the same reason discriminating gentlemen read reviews. I seek to spend my time with respectful men who know that being a gentleman means more than just being of the male gender. It's a good idea to pre-arrange a reference. What I mean by that is contact a provider who knows you and ask her if she is willing to give you a reference if you ever need one. That way she's more likely to get back to the provider who's asking faster. Some girls out there won't give a reference if you don't ask them if ask them if you can put them down as one first. I may see you without one, but it's better for everyone if I know about who I'm meeting first. It's only fair since I have years worth of reviews out there to tell you about me...

Allow for traffic, etc. when you make an appointment. Please bear in mind that if my schedule is full on the day of your appointment, I can't ask everyone else to change the time we agreed to meet if you're late. If you're going to be more than 15 minutes late, just call to reschedule. If you can't keep an appointment, please call as soon as you know so that I can make changes in my schedule. This is your hobby, and while it's genuinely fun for me, it's also my livelihood. Please have respect for that.

I am not a member of any social networking site and will not accept invitations to any of them. Please do not send me invitations to them, or any other message through a 3rd party website that is not affiliated with the hobby.