Courtesy is king. I will treat you right and put my best effort into making our time together unforgettable. Just respect me like the lady that I am and we'll get along great.

It should go without saying that hygiene is of the utmost importance. Please be showered and clean shaven when you arrive to meet me. Beards and mustaches should be well groomed. If that is not possible given where you had to come from, you are expected to remedy the situation when you get to my location. I would never disrespect you in that way, so please behave in kind. That said, most people are unaware of the fact that you should NOT brush your teeth 45 minutes prior to or after a casual encounter. If you've just come from lunch, I always keep my room stocked with mouthwash. It's out to be used so please help yourself.

All details are discussed online before we ever speak on the phone. If you have questions that haven't been answered on this site, send them in an email or contact me on a messenger. I'm very discreet and I expect the same from anyone I meet. I won't ever use your contact number at any time other than when you say I can, but the exchange of numbers is requisite to making an appointment. No exceptions.  By the same token, the terms of our meeting should not be brought up when we meet.  All arrangements have been discussed and finalized before you get there, so there should be no need to discuss it further.  It should also not be necessary for anyone to discuss the donation in person.  You should bring it in an unmarked, unsealed envelope and leave it on a desk or dresser when you arrive without anyone mentioning it.

In regards to the previous section:  Gentlemen, you cannot afford to be ignorant about some particulars to the hobby.  Across the board, your favorite misconception seems to be that asking a certain question offers you some sort of security, when in reality you'd get the same amount of protection from telling me what you had for breakfast - none.  Broaching this subject will only make me uncomfortable and in some cases may prompt me to leave or ask you to leave.  We check references for a reason.  You read reviews for a reason.  If at any moment you have doubts about who you think I am, please do not request that I set time aside to meet you.  A true gentleman would bother to do his own research and would never arrive to meet me with such low expectations.

I always answer the door either dressed in regular clothes or in a robe.  I believe in discretion above anything else, and I would expect the type of gentlemen I seek to meet to understand that.

Allow for traffic, etc. when you make an appointment. Please bear in mind that if my schedule is full on the day of your appointment, I can't ask everyone else to change the time we agreed to meet if you're late. If you're going to be more than 15 minutes late, just call to reschedule. If you can't keep an appointment, please call as soon as you know so that I can make changes in my schedule. This is your hobby, and while it's genuinely fun for me, it's also my livelihood. Please have respect for that.

I am not a member of any social networking site and will not accept invitations to any of them. Please do not send me invitations to them, or any other message through a 3rd party website that is not affiliated with the hobby.